Reflection: Living The Meaning of Our Name

Fr. Eseese 'Ace' Tui • February 13, 2026

REFLECTION:


When I was reading this passage, I couldn’t help myself — I had to look up the meaning of the names of the characters in the story. Sometimes in Scripture, the names carry deeper meaning. So I looked them up and wondered: Does this tie into the passage?


Here’s what I found.

  • Solomon means “peace.”
  • Jeroboam means “the people increase.”
  • Rehoboam means “the people are enlarged.”
  • David means “beloved.”


And when you step back and look at the story, something striking appears.


The king whose name means peace ends up causing division. Solomon’s heart becomes divided — and eventually the kingdom becomes divided. Peace is lost not because of military defeat, but because of spiritual compromise. His heart drifted first. The fracture in the nation started as a fracture in the soul.



Then there is Rehoboam, whose name suggests strengthening and enlarging the people. Yet through pride and harshness, he shrinks the kingdom. He refuses to listen. He chooses ego over wisdom. And ten tribes walk away.


Jeroboam, whose name suggests increase, receives the larger portion — but later leads that larger portion into idolatry. Growth without faithfulness becomes corruption.


And yet David — “beloved” — remains the anchor. God preserves one tribe for the sake of David. Not because David was perfect, but because David returned to the Lord when he fell. Beloved does not mean flawless. It means faithful enough to come back.


The deeper question this reading asks is not just about ancient kings. It asks us: Are we living the meaning of our name?


For us as Christians, our name is “beloved son” or “beloved daughter.” Our identity is rooted in Christ. But when our hearts become divided — when ambition, pride, resentment, or compromise pull us in different directions — something fractures. Maybe not a kingdom. But a family. A community. A ministry. A friendship.

The tragedy of this reading is not political — it is spiritual.


A divided heart eventually creates divided relationships.


Solomon did not lose the kingdom overnight. It eroded slowly through small compromises. Foreign alliances. Idolatry. Spiritual drift. And what begins quietly in the heart eventually becomes visible in the world.


So perhaps the reflection is simple: Peace is not maintained by power, but by fidelity. Growth is not sustained by force, but by humility. Leadership is not secured by control, but by listening. And a beloved heart is one that keeps returning to God.


The kingdom divided because the heart divided. The invitation for us is the opposite: Let the heart be united — so that what we build does not fracture.