Reflection: When Words Fall Short

Fr. Eseese 'Ace' Tui • October 29, 2025

Wednesday of the Thirtieth Week in Ordinary Time


REFLECTION:

Prayer has always been a challenge for many of us—especially for adults. I can’t count how many times I’ve been in a gathering of grown-ups, and when someone asks, “Who would like to lead us in prayer?”, everyone suddenly looks down or away, hoping not to be called on. Yet I’m often amazed at how freely children pray. Even my five-year-old nephew has offered simple but beautiful prayers from the heart. There’s something honest, unfiltered, and trusting in the way children talk to God—something that we adults often lose over time.


In today’s reading, St. Paul reminds us that prayer isn’t about saying the right words or sounding holy—it’s about being open before God. “The Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought.” Even when we can’t find the words, the Holy Spirit prays within us, turning our sighs, tears, or silence into a prayer that reaches the heart of the Father.


There are times when we come before God and simply don’t know what to say. Life weighs heavy, our minds are distracted, or we feel unworthy to speak. But God understands the language of our hearts. The Spirit interprets our silence, transforming our weakness into an offering of faith.


Paul continues, “We know that all things work together for good for those who love God.” That promise brings peace—because even when our prayers seem unanswered, even when we struggle to understand, God is still working. The Spirit who prays within us is also shaping us, guiding us to trust more deeply, to love more fully, and to become more like Christ.


So the next time you hesitate to pray or worry that your words aren’t enough, remember: prayer isn’t a performance—it’s a relationship. God doesn’t need perfection; He desires honesty. Sometimes the most powerful prayer is simply sitting in His presence and letting your heart rest in Him.