Reflection: Don't Wait Until You Get There

Fr. Eseese 'Ace' Tui • May 29, 2026

Optional Memorial of Saint Paul VI, pope


Brief Background:

Saint Paul VI, born Giovanni Battista Montini in 1897, served as pope from 1963 to 1978 during one of the most significant periods of renewal in the Church's history. He guided the Church through the completion and implementation of the Second Vatican Council, helping Catholics engage the modern world while remaining faithful to the Gospel. Known as the "Pilgrim Pope," he was the first pope in modern times to travel extensively around the world, bringing a message of faith, peace, and evangelization to people of every nation. Through his writings and leadership, he emphasized that every Christian is called to be a witness to Christ in daily life. Canonized in 2018, Saint Paul VI is a fitting patron for students, educators, and leaders, inspiring them to live with courage, faith, and a commitment to sharing the Good News in a changing world.


REFLECTION:


As the school year comes to an end, there is a sense of excitement in the air. For some students, it means moving up to the next grade level. For our seniors, it means graduation and stepping into a new chapter of life. There is a natural tendency at moments like these to look ahead and ask, "What comes next?" What college will I attend? What career will I pursue? Where will life take me?


In our first reading from St. Peter, he offers a surprising perspective. He reminds the early Christians that life is not simply about reaching a destination someday. Rather, it is about how we live today. "Be serious and disciplined for prayer. Above all, let your love for one another be intense. Serve one another with whatever gift each of you have received."


Notice that Peter does not say, "When you finally get where you're going, then start praying, loving, and serving." He says to do it now.


That is an important lesson for our graduates. Sometimes we think life begins after graduation, after college, after we get a job, after we get married, after we achieve some goal. We tell ourselves, "Once I get there, then I will become the person I want to be." But Peter reminds us that the habits and character that will define our future are formed today.


If you want to be a person of faith later, start praying now. If you want to be a loving spouse, parent, friend, or leader someday, start loving people now. If you want to make a difference in the world, start serving now.


The person you become tomorrow is being shaped by the choices you make today.


Peter also reminds us not to be surprised by difficulties. He speaks about the "trial by fire" that tests our faith. Every graduate will face challenges. Every parishioner will face challenges. There will be disappointments, failures, setbacks, and moments when life does not unfold according to plan. But Peter tells us that these trials are not obstacles to our growth; often they are the very means through which God forms us.


This message is not only for graduates. It is also for every parishioner. We can easily fall into the trap of thinking that purpose belongs to the young. We tell ourselves, "Once I retire, then I'll volunteer more. Once things settle down, then I'll focus on my faith. Once I have more time, then I'll serve." But Peter's words apply to all of us: don't wait. Pray now. Love now. Serve now. Use the gifts God has given you now.


As another school year comes to a close, perhaps the question is not, "Where are you going?" but "Who are you becoming?" Because whether you are graduating from school, raising a family, building a career, or enjoying retirement, God's call remains the same. Live with purpose. Love deeply. Serve generously. Trust God through life's trials.


The future is important, but discipleship begins today. Don't wait until you get there. Start now. And if we do, then wherever life leads us, we will not simply arrive at a destination—we will become the people God created us to be.