Reflection: More Than Just Going Through the Motions

Fr. Eseese 'Ace' Tui • March 12, 2026

REFLECTION:


This past week, I had a series of meetings with different groups at school. I met with teachers, staff, and others in our community. In many of those conversations, one word kept coming up again and again: relationships.


People spoke about the importance of relationships between teachers and students, between colleagues, and between the school and families. It reminded me that at the heart of everything we do in a school community is not just work or programs, but people.


Yet sometimes, especially in busy places like schools and parishes, it is easy for us to fall into a routine. We go through the motions of what needs to be done. We attend meetings, send emails, teach classes, plan events, and check things off our list. The work gets done, but along the way we can sometimes lose sight of why we are doing it.


All of these things are meant to build and strengthen relationships.


In the first reading today, God speaks through the prophet Jeremiah and reminds the people of something very important. God says, “Listen to my voice… walk in the way I command you.” At its heart, God’s covenant with His people was never meant to be just about rituals or external practices. It was always meant to be about relationship. But the people had begun to reduce their faith to actions alone. They continued their religious practices, but they stopped truly listening to God. They were going through the motions, while their hearts were drifting away.


This reading invites us to pause and reflect on our own lives. Do we sometimes do the same thing? Do we pray simply because it is part of our routine? Do we attend Mass because it is what we are supposed to do? Do we carry out our responsibilities at work or school simply to complete the task?


None of these actions are wrong. In fact, they are good and necessary. But they only have their deepest meaning when they are rooted in relationship. Prayer is not just words we say; it is a conversation with God. The Mass is not just something we attend; it is an encounter with Christ. Our work in a school or parish is not just about programs and schedules; it is about forming and caring for people.


This week’s conversations about relationships reminded me that behind everything we do are the connections we share with one another. And behind all of those relationships is the one relationship that gives meaning to everything else—our relationship with God.


Today’s reading gently challenges us to ask ourselves: Am I simply going through the motions, or am I living the relationship that God is inviting me into?

When we return to that relationship, the things we do begin to take on new life and deeper purpose.